Monday, November 19, 2012

Sexual Relations in Islam

I took this from a website quite some time ago, tak ingat website mana... lama saved as draft. If ada sesiapa yg nak in BM, I can try and translate it Inshallah. May this be beneficial to all.

The purpose of Nikah is to become the mutual source of peace, comfort plus enjoyment for one another. The relation between husband and wife is just like a garment, which covers and protects the body. Sex-related aspect of the marriage is the extension of this.

The husbands are asked to become considerate, gentle and loving with his wife or wives, to try to accomplish their needs. A wife is supposed to reserve herself entirely for her husband, plus make efforts to become attractive, along with making herself available to her husband whenever he need her in bed. This last obligation even applies to her husband.

In Islam, every type of relation that leads to sex or bed starts after marriage and is reserved only for the married couple. Every wife and husband is also responsible to honor the solitude of the sexual relations they have as well as should not talk about their bedroom details to any other person or friends.

The rules of husband and wife’s sexual relations in Islam are several and very simple. These are explained below:
  1. Lovemaking relations are for any pleasure of both husband and wife as well as for the procreation associated with children. Sexual intercourse isn’t limited to vaginal sexual penetration however, includes other sorts of sexual caressing for example fondling and kissing of numerous kinds.

  2. Nothing at all should be done which is unpleasant and unhealthy for either person. Everyone has the duty or responsible to be sexually accessible to the other however, neither gets the right to dislike and injure each other.

  3. With some exceptions, any couple could engage in any specific activities, which they enjoy in any manner plus in any position. Almighty Allah rewards these kinds of activities as definitely as he or she punishes sinful activities. Holy Qur’an says,

    “Females are your fields. Proceed then in to your fields like you please.”(2:223)

  4. It’s forbidden to get vaginal intercourse whilst a female is menstruating. In accordance to the Sunnah from the Prophet s.a.w., a person and the menstruating wife could however provide one another pleasure as long as this woman vaginal is avoided. Holy Quran is very clear on this issue:

    “They inquire you concerning menstruation. Point out: that is the Adha (a harmful issue for a husband to experience a sexual activity with his wife whilst she’s having her menses), subsequently keep away from females during menses plus go not on to them until they’ve purified (from menses and also have taken the bath). And once they have purified on their own, after that go in on to them like Allah has appointed for you (proceed in on to them in any kind of manner so long as it’s in their vagina)”. (Surah Al-Baqarah in 2:222)

  5. You can find hadiths which forbid anal intercourse. Additionally scholars commonly agreed that it’s not permissible. Nevertheless, in his tafsir (comments) Tabaari (third millennium A. H.) whilst forbidding sodomy, states that earlier experts had been divided about the question.

    It was reported from Khuzaymah ibn Thaabit (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allah is not too shy to tell you the truth: do not have intercourse with your wives in the anus.” (Narrated by Imaam Ahmad, 5/213; a hasan hadeeth).

    Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah will not look at a man who has intercourse with his wife in her anus.” (Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah, 3/529; narrated and classed as saheeh by al-Tirmidhi, 1165).

  6. Oral sex is permissible between husband and wife as long as neither swallow semen or vaginal fluid. Also, this should be done with the mutual permission of both spouses. Holy Qur’an and Sunnah are usually silent regarding the various sorts that lovemaking relations might take. Most experts consider that it’s up to the wife and husband in love as well as mutual respect to make the decision how physically communicate their sex-related needs and desires.

  7. What goes on inside bedroom, is a personal matter and shouldn’t be discussed or even revealed to another person until there is any necessity, for instance health or protection.

    Abu Hurairah narrates said that the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) mentioned this regarding people who reveal along with discuss openly their own lovemaking practices: “Do you realize what those people who make this happen are like? Those people who make this happen are similar to a man and woman devil who meet one another on the road plus satisfy their desire whilst the people look them."

  8. In Islam, once any husband has had sex activity with his wife within the legal manner, and also after that wishes to come back another time, it’s much better that he first does another ablution (wudu). Which means: it is better in case he does not commence sexual intercourse within the unclean physical condition.

    In the words from the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh):
    “This method is better, purer and cleaner”. (Reported through Abu Dawud)

  9. It’s permissible for a female to view all of the husband as well as for a male to view all of the wife, without necessity to go in to details. Because Allah Ta’ala says (interpretation from the meaning):

    “And people who guard their sexual abstention (such as private parts by illegal sexual performs) except from their own wives and (the captives plus slaves) which their right hands have for then they’re free from blame however whoever looks for beyond that, after that those people are the transgressors”. (Surah al-Mu’minoon 23).


  1. Assalamualaikum Puan Mawar!
    good sharing on this entry. In Islam, we have do's and dont's. and thats the point here,

    “Females are your fields. Proceed then in to your fields like you please.”(2:223)

  2. Berkali-kali dah baca ni. Peringatan untuk diri sendiri :)


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